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After almost 19 years we are calling it quits
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Site Supporter   Location: Tacoma/Puyallup Joined: Tue May 8, 2012 Posts: 4340 Real Name: Larry 
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Massivedesign wrote: That sucks Mash..It sounds like you are doing it right though. Doing this as a business transaction, and the only thing that really matters is the kids. House doesn't matter, retirement doesn't matter. Your job since those kids were born were to be their father. Make sure they are okay in all of this. Don't fight in front of them, don't argue or discuss the details in front of them. My parents divorced when I was 6. I never saw them fight, argue or be mean, but later on they told me they were all of that, just never in front of us kids. ^^^ My Parents divorced when I was 16, they kept the divorce quiet until it was pretty much done. I had seen them bicker about little things prior and unrelated to the divorce itself, but that was it. I for one was glad to know they were each happier apart, even back then as a kid. I am only finding out now that is was actually pretty bad on the backside and not coming up until now when they were forced to be in the same place for my kids graduation party. Again good on you Mash, keep it nice and cordual and make sure everything is in writing and done. Especially custody things, I have seen a few friends go thru hell with custody issues down the road. _________________ Talons wrote: it's too plastic, even for me. it's like old, overworked, plastic everywhere old pornwhore amounts of plastic. |
| Tue Jul 20, 2021 7:52 am |
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Site Supporter  Location: Lynnwood Joined: Sat Nov 28, 2020 Posts: 789
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Sorry but is probably for the best. Only advice is keep telling your kids they are loved and not the issue. See it bad with my sister's kids.
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| Tue Jul 20, 2021 1:40 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Eastside/Seattle Joined: Sun Feb 16, 2014 Posts: 803
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I got out of a relationship of almost 10 years last year. Dating in this Era over 35 is TOUGH. Do not recommend lol.
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| Tue Jul 20, 2021 2:01 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: SHELTON Joined: Tue Mar 29, 2011 Posts: 4427 Real Name: Jeff
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crosse wrote: I got out of a relationship of almost 10 years last year. Dating in this Era over 35 is TOUGH. Do not recommend lol. Good thing most of the women in his field of work are looking for a sugardaddy. Bad thing pickings aren’t so great… |
| Tue Jul 20, 2021 2:03 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Kent Joined: Wed Mar 13, 2013 Posts: 1659 Real Name: Andy
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crosse wrote: I got out of a relationship of almost 10 years last year. Dating in this Era over 35 is TOUGH. Do not recommend lol. MGTOW  Sad to hear when couples break up. I’ve got no better advice than any previous post. Just hang in there. You will be just fine.  .  |
| Tue Jul 20, 2021 2:14 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Bow Joined: Tue Apr 2, 2013 Posts: 2688 Real Name: Phill
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crosse wrote: Dating in this Era FIFY. I'm 29 in December. Fuck if I want to get involved with women my age in this era. Last thing I need is to be 'Me Too'd by some lefty college chick or have my truck smashed by a Skagit Valley hillbilly chick that hasn't been wifed up already (you know, on account of the crazy). My guns won't ever leave me hanging, and at least my truck gives me error codes when it breaks instead of just saying "nothing. I'm fine." _________________ Sinus211 wrote: Z66 and I still fuck on the regular. zombie66 wrote: Mikey is a Bossy Bottom..... |
| Tue Jul 20, 2021 2:22 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: Eastside/Seattle Joined: Sun Feb 16, 2014 Posts: 803
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Pvanderzee wrote: crosse wrote: Dating in this Era FIFY. I'm 29 in December. Fuck if I want to get involved with women my age in this era. Last thing I need is to be 'Me Too'd by some lefty college chick or have my truck smashed by a Skagit Valley hillbilly chick that hasn't been wifed up already (you know, on account of the crazy). My guns won't ever leave me hanging, and at least my truck gives me error codes when it breaks instead of just saying "nothing. I'm fine." |
| Tue Jul 20, 2021 2:36 pm |
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Site Supporter / FFL Dealer  Location: Tacoma, Washington Joined: Fri Nov 21, 2014 Posts: 8351
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You’ll be better off.
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| Tue Jul 20, 2021 2:42 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Lynnwood and at large Joined: Wed May 1, 2013 Posts: 21260 Real Name: Vick Lagina
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FWIW: I would NEVER go into the process without a lawyer. No one has to know you've sought advice and the cavalry will be ready and up to speed if/when an "amicable split" gets emotional.
One enters into the divorce process for self interest and that self-interest should also guide the separation. Divorce is antagonistic. It's a recreation of two individual interests. Emotion and self-interest can lead to acrimony despite the best intentions and mutual promises of fair play and concession. The interest of the kids should be paramount, but that intention can and often times is used against you. Your well being is in the better interest of the kids, too. _________________ “Finding ‘common ground’ with the thinking of evil men is a fool’s errand” ~ Herschel Smith "The “A return to First Principles in a Republic is sometimes caused by simple virtues of a single man. His good example has such an influence that the good men strive to imitate him, and the wicked are ashamed to lead a life so contrary to his example. Before all else, be armed!” ~ Niccolo Machiavelli Láodòng zhèng zhūwèi zìyóu FJB |
| Tue Jul 20, 2021 2:44 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Olympia, WA Joined: Tue Jun 14, 2011 Posts: 3836
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Sorry to hear this Mash, chin up, we're here for you. Except I'm not sure about helping you move. Just kidding.
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| Tue Jul 20, 2021 3:37 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: Bonney Lake Joined: Fri Oct 21, 2011 Posts: 3294
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Massivedesign wrote: That sucks Mash..It sounds like you are doing it right though. Doing this as a business transaction, and the only thing that really matters is the kids. House doesn't matter, retirement doesn't matter. Your job since those kids were born were to be their father. Make sure they are okay in all of this. Don't fight in front of them, don't argue or discuss the details in front of them. My parents divorced when I was 6. I never saw them fight, argue or be mean, but later on they told me they were all of that, just never in front of us kids. Don't forget to take care of yourself too. Depression can come in many forms. Chin up and use your people to help you out if you need it. this. this right here. |
| Tue Jul 20, 2021 6:35 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Airway heights Joined: Sun Mar 20, 2011 Posts: 12246 Real Name: Michael
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StatlerandWaldorf wrote: Sorry to hear this Mash, chin up, we're here for you. Except I'm not sure about helping you move. Just kidding. but we had such a fun time 8 years ago lol. also i am keeping the house so there is that.  _________________ ANZAC wrote: That one that says "From my cold dead hands..... will require a background check" He who does not punish evil commands it to be done. --- Leonardo DaVinci When its time to go in: That place of steel and stone. I pray that you will keep me safe, so I will not walk alone. Help me to do my duty, please watch me on my rounds. Amongst those perilous places and slamming steel door sounds. God, keep my fellow Officers well and free from harm. Let them know I'll be there too, whenever there's alarm. Above all when I walk my beat, no matter where I roam. Let me go back whence I came, to family and home Author unknown. |
| Wed Jul 21, 2021 11:18 am |
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Site Supporter  Location: Tenino Joined: Fri Apr 15, 2011 Posts: 4396
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HUH !!! what, no way!!! no comprende......
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| Wed Jul 28, 2021 7:49 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: East of Japan, not by much. Joined: Fri Jun 3, 2011 Posts: 12990
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Just go catch some fresh beaver as soon as the ink is dry on the paperwork.
Overnight only, at her place. May not solve all your problems, but it will be fun. _________________ Give a man a fish, and he will eat for a day. Give a man a fishing pole, and he will drink too much beer, get tangled in fish line, hook himself in the nose casting, fall overboard, and either drown, or, go home hungry and wet. Give a man a case of dynamite, and he will feed the whole town for a year! BE ON NOTICE: PRIVACY NOTICE: Warning - any person and/or institution and/or Agent and/or Agency of any governmental structure including but not limited to the United States Federal Government also using or monitoring/using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos, and/or the comments made about my photos or any other "picture" art posted on my profile. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee, agent, student or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are PRIVATE and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. UCC 1-103 1-308 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED WITHOUT PREJUDICE |
| Thu Jul 29, 2021 6:41 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: In my Cave near the Cloquallum Joined: Thu Sep 26, 2013 Posts: 7788 Real Name: Jim Sr.
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survivor wrote: crosse wrote: I got out of a relationship of almost 10 years last year. Dating in this Era over 35 is TOUGH. Do not recommend lol. MGTOW Sad to hear when couples break up. I’ve got no better advice than any previous post. Just hang in there. You will be just fine. . HUHHH…  _________________ "You are either with us...as Americans. Or, You are against us. There is no IN BETWEEN." ??? "We cannot negotiate with those who say, 'What's mine is mine, and what's yours is negotiable.'" JFK "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety” -Ben Franklin MadPick wrote: I don't think you beat your children enough. |
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